RE: Why I wont put you on my list

[Little Songbird]

My sfs have told me that others wonder why I wont put them on my list...It is with good reasons and I will make the time to list them in no particular order: 1.) If I have seen you be mean to another toon or one of my trusted friends tell me you were(especially a low lafferl). 2.) If you wont help anyone but yourself. 3.) Most recently..If you abandoned Anime eyes or any of my friends in any bldgs or battles when they really needed your help. 4.) If I find out you are dishonest (meaning..saying you are busy and I see that you aren't 5.) If you didn't heal me or my friends or have allowed any of them or me to go sad(the only times I have not healed is when someone kept saying out loud or whispered to me "You Stink" or some other negative phrase over and over again). The same can't be said of some other toons I have been in bldgs with. Here's a great example: Once upon a time in Bullion...I went in w/a pink cat(she knows who she is) and her sf <snip>I will name her because she is still mean and continues lie about me to a mutual sf that we both have...The pink cat's "boyfirend"(I am using that term loosely)...asked me to be his friend and he flirted with me openly ..I didn't respond in any way...to make a long story short...she got mad and told her friend and the other toon not to heal me...the cogs were lure...I was down to a lot less than 50 pts and the remaining two cogs were going to die with the use of a single ele(perhaps less) and instead of healing me...they both listened to her and all picked sound and then went off to the next set of cogs... For those of you who dont know...there is a section of the bullion that has 4 sets that are level or greater there is no need to tell you the maximum attack value...It was set 2 of 4 and with no opportunity of being healed.(I had no "Toonups" left..I used them to save lower laffers in vp...I left and I have no regrets about that..any rational minded person would've done the same thing. For those of you who opted to believe <snip> and hound me to this day...and tell me I stink or go back to ttc...get a life and grow up....On the advice of a good friend....I want people to finally know..My side of the story. *It has also been brought to my attention....that a lot of you have wondered why my add friends option is off...If you really want to know...continue reading* Here's why: I don't want people asking to be friends in that way because when I forget to turn it off upon logging in and I clicked "NO"..I am told "You Stink" in a whisper and out loud sometimes. I am very picky about who I want as a friend. I need to like my firends in tt and in real life. Friends are supposed to want to hang out and do things together. And what is with those of you who get your sf buddies to gang up on me and my friends....the "Sheep" you call buddies have no idea what you whisper to others and are foolish to follow you to someone who has only said "NO" to being firends. If I don't know you...don't bother to harrass me by whispering...know this...I take screen shots...and I nave...in some instances...tpd to a jerk or two who was being very negative in whispers. I always say.."Pls don't bother me"...I say it out loud so eveyone knows ..... For those of you who have a problem w/someone saying "NO" to friendship...You need to learn to that "NO" means "NO" no matter what and if you can't take no for an answer and it makes you that mad...seek help..PLEASE!!! I have the right to say that and so do you....so get a grip and Know that you can't make anyone be your friend...Attempting to bully me or anyone I know wont work....it only makes you look desperate and stupid. ENOUGH SAID!!

[bri]

Oh jeez, TT drama? Who cares, just try to ignore whoever is mean. Those people need to grow up

[sparx]

enough sed is right, tht was the longest post ive ever seen! and every1 who goes on tt knows tht u cant force ppl 2 b ure freind

[Megawoof]

Even though I hardly know you those people that say you stink after you tell them no to be your freind are probably little kids that don't understand the game.They just want freinds.And all those other people are probably greifers in that bullion.There everywhere so you just have to learn to ignore them.But that was very mean to what they did to you.

[Tom The Cat]

Originally Posted by Little Songbird

(see original post if you want to read the whole thing) ENOUGH SAID!!

Enough times fifty.

You take your situation far too seriously. Everybody who plays this game seriously deals with what you described almost every day.

Also, anybody who gave you advice to post your dramatics here in a forum that most people who play Toontown haven't heard of and may never read is a person you probably shouldn't get advice from in the future.

[Little Songbird]

You are entiitled to your opinions...I posted here because of the number of pms
received....This is in answer to inquiries....I thank you for your posts...DId you read where I wrote..."IF YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW" guess not...or perhaps you are just plain nosey....Case and point!!!

[Gabbana]

Originally Posted by Little Songbird

You are entiitled to your opinions...I posted here because of the number of pms
received....This is in answer to inquiries....I thank you for your posts...DId you read where I wrote..."IF YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW" guess not...or perhaps you are just plain nosey....Case and point!!!

How does it ANYONE nosey if you posted in a public forum??

[Tom The Cat]

Originally Posted by Little Songbird

You are entiitled to your opinions...I posted here because of the number of pms
received....This is in answer to inquiries....I thank you for your posts...DId you read where I wrote..."IF YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW" guess not...or perhaps you are just plain nosey....Case and point!!!

What do you expect when you post something in a public forum?

Perhaps you could have sent a PM to everybody who asked, instead of airing out the laundry here in a public form where everybody can read it and reply. It wouldn't be hard to copy and paste it several times. Then only the people who were involved (the alleged many who PM'd you) would get to read it, and the "nosy" people wouldn't ever see it.