The other day I was doing the mint. I don't mind going with the flow..sound, lure & trap, whatever, all my gags are maxxed so it makes no difference to me.
We were with a toon who I gather picked trap and said 'Could you help me?' From my point of view, two of us had picked sound and two of us hadn't picked a gag yet. One of the other two picked sound, so the other went along too but had to throw in a 'You Stink!'
I said, No.
Point is, she wanted help but I couldn't see what gag she chose, so I didn't know if she wanted us to lure or that her level 6 gag wasn't maxxed and needed some extra power. On the next round I picked lure and sure enough she picked trap.
So please don't assume that the other toons can see what you picked, with lag you sometimes don't know what's happening until the pies fly. We weren't being mean, we just had no clue.
If you want someone to help you trap, then saying 'I think you should choose lure.' makes more sense.
This happens so much, you want to pick gags to max the attack, but it's impossible when you can't see what the others are choosing because of lag.
I don't stink.

I'm more than willing to help.