I do not know Nameless Kitten and I was not there. So I have no idea why he/she went sad the first or second time. Was the revenge in the CCG district? If so - the open arms concept applies. We welcome all - remember?
If you organize a run (revenge or otherwise) that is to exclude anyone then it needs moved to a private district. Therefore if in the CCG district, no one horned in. If in a private district - count to 10? Change again.
Now - as a uber runner. I find it highly offensive that you claim you would have GIVEN said uber (or anyone) a win. Do you still believe ubers want a win HANDED to them?! That is offensive and disresptful. True ubers play for the challenge. Uber survival depends on strategy and some luck, not because some big toon might coddle them and hand them a sure thing. Again, as a uber runner I would have rather you said that you could have given them good teamwork. Your heart is in the right place, but not your words.
Respectfully, LVTP