I definitely agree with you. I started a new toon recently and the amount of grief I get it amazing! I was in a battle with a high level toon (gags MAXED) and threw out a seltzer. He waited a few seconds and threw out a birthday cake. I said, You have to be kidding... and he said Oh well. ARGH.
I'm not playing right now because I left a building from my 111 laff toon. I went as a favor to someone who whispered me. On the 2nd floor his gag missed and mine destroyed the cog so he started stinking me. Are you kidding?? I'm sorry, am I not helping YOU? I sure don't need the experience or cogs, YOU do. ARGH. People are crazy!!
You have my blessings and good luck in your endeavors!