I'm really sorry this happened too. EVERYONE is welcome. The splitting thing is difficult. One thing to remember is there are people (myself included) who bring 2 toons. If one hops the other most likely will too.
As was mentioned, try to keep an equal number on and off. It IS very nice for friends to be together, or those running 2 toons to be able to be on the same run. Makes it more fun for all of us.
IF you see there are too many on the elevator and someone needs to get off, and you are alone, it would be real nice if you were the one to hop and wait for the next crew. I always try and let friends stay together.
A suggestion. If you are hopping to stay with the next group, say stay as you are hopping off. This way people know your intention.
Please give the clan another try. You did the best thing coming here and saying Hey! What's up? lol.. now everyone knows who you are and best welcome you with open arms.
Welcome back!